As if there could be a number assigned to quantify the methodology of finding true love…but I like the basic premise of self love before loving another even as the author, whose article is in the link below, argues that true love is selfless. There is nothing revelatory in this article, but I think obvious truths are sometimes nice to read about through some other’s perspective, for instance the Spirit, Science and Metaphysics perspective.
Enjoy.
http://www.spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com/