This article (link below) from Buzzfeed features a letter from philosopher Martha Nussbaum on a type of self love, which seems to undergird the previous article I posted today on avoiding fake love. Enjoy.
http://www.brainpickings.org/2012/10/12/martha-nussbaum-take-my-advice/
"My mistress' eyes are nothing…"
In the gaze of the other 